How many times have we heard the expression "the first impression is what stays". These days I've been thinking about it, while discovering Tokyo as well as Japan for my first time.The day I left Beijing on my way to the airport the taxi driver made me the usual questions: Where are you from? And How long have you been in China? To the first question, as usual, I had to explain where Spain is what is the main language spoken. The reference to the South of France was enough to indicate the location, then I had to explain that in Spain we do not speak French, but Spanish. Answering the second question, I realized that I have been already two years in China.
The renewal of my visa, which allows me a maximum continuous stay of 3 months in China, and a bit of work brought me to Japan. The first night, while dining at the nice Aoky’s place where the main menu was BBQ chicken with vegetables (Yakitori), I was thinking about the impressions you get during the first hours and days at a new place. A second, third or fourth time that the visit a place again is never the same, so that first time is a bit special.
Sure everything has its drawbacks. Last Saturday while conversing with Tomo (a Japanese friend I had met years ago in London) told me that he wanted to leave to live abroad again. It appears that this order and enforcement made it a nice life outside the office, but not inside it, which seems excessive regulated and does not leave much room for flexibility and creativity.
I thought I was very clearly about my first impression, but what I talked to Tomo made me think. Now, I will try to scratch the first impressions to make sure that I do not get it wrong…